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Cross Examination

Seaver College students reflect on how a nine-day Pepperdine experience for high schoolers guided them to explore their calling

How do we discover our life鈥檚 purpose? What were we put on this earth to accomplish? How do we live fulfilling lives?

 

While many adults find opportunities to ponder the meaning of life as they go about their day鈥攄uring a silent evening commute, while strolling the aisles of a supermarket, or as they hit their stride on the treadmill鈥攖he examination of one鈥檚 true purpose in life is often not an intentional practice.

Cross Examination - Pepperdine MagazineFor teenagers, the intimidating task of determining their place in the world can spark confusion and insecurity as they navigate the twists and turns of growing up. The Pepperdine CrossWays program, a nine-day summer experience designed for high school juniors and seniors, has provided teens across America the chance to immerse themselves in reflection and interactive group activities as they examine their past, present, and future to discover their vocational calling through the lens of faith.

Launched in 2016 after receiving a $600,000 grant from the Lilly Endowment to be distributed over three years, CrossWays provides experiences for 100 students each year to learn to live, love, serve, and lead like Jesus. Through guided discovery, which includes fellowship, spiritual programming, and mentorship by Pepperdine student leaders, participants create a map of their lives that outlines their history and what they feel called to pursue.

鈥淭he goal of CrossWays is to begin to discover what God may have created us to do,鈥 explains Jeff Walling (MS 鈥16), director of the Pepperdine Youth Leadership Initiative and executive director of the innovative spiritual program. 鈥淚f we believe that God created us for a specific position, we can look at how he has shaped us through our experiences, passions, gifts, and skills to get some idea of what we were designed for.鈥


Baggage Claim

鈥淲hatever work I am called to do, I know that my past has prepared me for it, my present is leading up to it, and my future is in God鈥檚 hands,鈥 shares Heather Chaffin, a first-year Seaver College student who traveled alone from her native Missouri to Malibu as a high school senior to join the CrossWays program. 鈥淚 have a specific purpose in this life to do something for God and others each and every day.鈥

Along with her cohort, Chaffin participated in worship at Surf Chapel held on the beach, hiked to the cross above the Pepperdine campus, heard from guest speakers as they discussed how faith plays a role in their professional lives, and attempted to discern her vocational calling as she worked through her life map.

Beyond the enriching programs designed to provide participants with a pleasant setting for self-reflection and vision casting, the CrossWays experience also challenges youngsters鈥 notions of comfort and encourages them to consider the realities faced by less fortunate communities. One divergent project offers a special excursion to Hollywood, which at first seems like an entertaining break from the week鈥檚 back- to-back on-campus activities. As Chaffin and the other participants learned more about their trip to Tinseltown, however, they realized that the outing was more than a tourist visit to the historic TCL Chinese Theatre and a walk across the stars on the Hollywood Walk of Fame. It would, in fact, be a meaningful lesson in empathizing with the perils routinely experienced by the city鈥檚 destitute residents.

Cross Examination - Pepperdine MagazineDivided into cohorts of 10 to 12 individuals led by Pepperdine students, participants were told that they would be living like the homeless for an entire night and were given small drawstring bags to fill with the bare necessities they may need while away from campus.

Chaffin, who managed to fill her bag with fresh clothing and a blanket in addition to basic toiletries, found herself settling in for the night inside the Hollywood Church of Christ. With the option to sleep either in the cold pews or on the hard floor, and with amenities reduced to portable toilets and plastic sinks located outside the building, students were encouraged to focus on prayer and thank God for what they still had. After a long night of 鈥渇rustration and discomfort,鈥 Chaffin followed her cohort to Downtown Los Angeles to volunteer at a homeless shelter on Skid Row鈥攁n area that famously hosts one of America鈥檚 largest homeless populations.

鈥淪eeing tents laid out on every sidewalk and trash displayed like d茅cor is when I began to sense what homelessness actually felt like,鈥 recalls Chaffin, whose cohort gave manicures to the women at the shelter. While socializing with the residents, she met a pair of homeless sisters who were so full of joy that their temporary living conditions did not seem to overshadow their hope for a better future. 鈥淭hese ladies had nothing except each other, and that was enough for them. They said you can鈥檛 be angry in a situation like this because you have to invest your energy into remaining positive.鈥

Thinking back to the previous night when she complained about 鈥渉aving nothing,鈥 despite her clean change of clothes, a roof over her head, and a room full of supportive peers to comfort her, Chaffin remembered a friend in her cohort who, despite enduring painful adversities, was the most positive person in the room.

鈥淚 realized that there are two ways to go through life,鈥 Chaffin admits. 鈥淣o matter how much I had or didn鈥檛 have, I decided to be positive, grateful, and hopeful during hardship. We are always going to be uncomfortable in this world, but we still have so much to thank God for.鈥

Reflecting on her spiritual growth since those eventful nine days, Chaffin now reminds herself during demanding circumstances that God has a plan and a purpose for her life, and that there is often a greater purpose behind every tragedy.

鈥淓very minute of CrossWays was eye- opening, and I grew in my faith more during that one week than I have in my entire life,鈥 she says. 鈥淐rossWays can be anything you make of it, but I guarantee it will be the best and most life-changing time of your life if you let it.鈥


Legal Ease

鈥淚 went into CrossWays with a lot of uncertainty in my life. I didn鈥檛 know where I wanted to go to school, what type of work I wanted to do, or how I was going to get there,鈥 recalls Jackson 鈥淛ake鈥 Nichols, a first-year Seaver student who was introduced to the high school program while attending a convention for Church of Christ teens in Texas where Walling was delivering a presentation about the program.

Cross Examination - Pepperdine MagazineIn Malibu a few months later, the international business and religion major was particularly intrigued by the construction of his life map, an exercise that required him to think about the legacy he would leave on the world and how he would be remembered. Challenged to examine his life through a Christian lens, recount moments from his past to identify what led him to Christ, and consider how his previous experiences had strategically been directed by God to prepare him for the future, Nichols was deeply moved by the new personal and professional prospects that began to unfold through his life map.

During each night of the program, guest speakers representing various Pepperdine schools and departments also visited with the students, providing insights on how their current positions at the University allow them to serve God in different and fulfilling ways.

鈥淔or so long, I wanted a job that would change the world, but I always had this false notion that such a meaningful job would definitely have to have the word 鈥榤inister鈥 in the title,鈥 admits Nichols, having quietly struggled with doubts about whether traditional ministry positions were his true calling. 鈥淏ut I learned that you don鈥檛 have to become a minister to serve God and change the world. You can have an impact through other channels, like law, social science, and business.鈥

Nichols was particularly influenced by the works and accomplishments of alumnus Jim Gash (JD 鈥93), a law professor, director of the Sudreau Global Justice Program, associate dean for strategic planning and external relations at the Pepperdine School of Law and, now, president-elect of 色片软件免费. A renowned legal scholar and global justice advocate, Gash provided Nichols with a shining example of how a passion for service and ministry can be demonstrated using the tools acquired through different disciplines, in this case, the law.

鈥淧rofessor Gash showed me what a Christian lawyer looks like and inspired me to pursue a career in human rights law,鈥 Nichols shares. 鈥淚 came away from CrossWays with a better understanding of what I believe God is calling me to do.鈥

鈥淚n every career there are people who serve God in powerful ways, and most of the time their service is not obvious. They do it not for personal gain or for others to notice them, but for the glory of God,鈥 explains Nichols.

鈥淭hat is an important message for high school students to hear. If I hadn鈥檛 heard that message before starting college, who knows where I would be? I am certain of one thing: I wouldn鈥檛 be at Pepperdine.鈥


Photos: Lucy Man